It just doesn’t make sense. They say they’re gonna stick with you, through the good and the bad. And the minute things turn ugly, they’re already making their way to the door. It just doesn’t make sense.
They say they want to see the best and the worst side of you. But they won’t accept it after it’s shown to them. It just doesn’t make sense.
You’ve had conversations with them about your insecurities and abandonment issues and they’d still pull out stunts that threatens that.
I know, it just doesn’t make sense. None of it does.
But, one day, it’ll.
Because if they hadn’t done all this, you’d have never known that they weren’t “THE ONE”. Because the one, the right one, wouldn’t do this. They wouldn’t do this to hurt you, or exploit your weakness, they wouldn’t give up on you, no matter how hard it gets, they’d always come back, no matter how ugly it gets, they’d know your worth when they have you, and not after they’ve driven you crazy to the point the you’ve left.
And you wouldn’t know the difference if you weren’t on the receiving end of the worst, if you weren’t the one being taken for granted every single day, you wouldn’t know the difference if you hadn’t felt like a piece of shit. So if you’re out there, feeling hopeless and worthless, just know that, you’re being prepared for what you asked for, that is , “the right one”.
So take this as a learning, get back up, fight it, stand tall and keep hoping . Because this isn’t the end .And it certainly isn’t just it .It’ll make sense.
Don’t be scared that there won’t be any better than this, don’t be scared to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship just because you think you won’t get any better, because you’ll get BETTER and not because you deserve it, but because you fought for it.
Leave what doesn’t make you happy and fight for what does. It will make sense with the RIGHT ONE. It has to . BECAUSE then you’d know that you didn’t fight this war for nothing.
And this certainly, isn’t nothing.
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